So I'm sitting in a mochahut right now next to a couple who have connected on some dating site and as I listen to the guy, I'm running everything he says through my Jimmy filter and my God is the BS just flowing. First sign is that he is completely controlling the conversation. Every time she branches to something new, he brings it back to where he started. It is like the whole spiel has been rehearsed and used before. Tons of red flags: not from around her, came here with very little, matches her storyline with also having an ex, children, etc, but of course nothing can be verified because they are all in another country. Tells stories of people whose behavior is dodgy, but of course he is not like that. 30 minutes after meeting he has his arm around her. She is in medical field, and he has already put out some feeler questions about being around drugs at work. her back is towards me, but I almost wonder if she has a "V" on her forehead. I learned all of these lessons about scams etc from other sources, but it is nice that BCS can also functions as a low-tuition course at the school of hard knocks.
Submitted August 31, 2017 at 04:27PM by TheyTheirsThem http://ift.tt/2wm7chy
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